does it make sense when ppl say once u involve yrself in marriage means end of the romance and love le?
then let me tell u.. its actually nt true.the romance the love that a couple haf b4 their marriage can stil remain and same provided both are willing to giv in to always cooperate tgt to build a great relationship.
y am i blogging abt this today its cuz i haf been having arguments w my hubby and its always ongoing and we seemed like we cant communicate. we were always been able to communicate b4 marriage and we nv been quarrelling to this extent.so nw im here to blog abt hw actually small probs and probs between couples can b solved.
hmmm it can b solved onli when NUMBER 1: always tok tings out nv kip inside yr heart but always tok tings out w/0 shouting always rem THIS cuz shouting doesnt solve tings. NUMBER 2: always apologise wheneva you are in the wrong.nv push the blame to yr partner when its nt his or her fault. NUMBER 3: respect each other cuz this will allow each other to cool down and onli thru cooling down tings can be discussed.NUMBER 4: if tings stil cant work out i advised that both shld seek for professional help.nv eva lead to violence cuz it will ruin the rs and hurt the ppl ard u.there are many many advice and ways to solve all probs between a couple its onli whether we wan to bring ourselves to this step which is stepping forward to recognise our faults and seek for solutions instead of kip blaming other party.
aft quarrelling w my hubby for uncountable times i realised alot i realise that actually by saying nice tings encouraging tings to him and haf respect for him, i can actually save us frm alot of quarrels.but emotions get beta of me that makes me kip wanting to shout and makes him cant tk it.its so bad behaving this way. i feel so guilty.cuz he does love me.
life is short we shld treasure everyone ard us and nt adding more probs.
love dun cum easy esp true love so y mus we waste it on quarrelling? we shld find ways to make each other happy and live blissfully tgt.
love can stil b wonderful even aft marriage and its all depends on ourselves.. and my usual quote..... the greatest love of all is loving oneself
gd luck to every couples!!
ps: happy chinese new year to all =]
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