wats impt of a couple es a married one? well i shall emphasize more on the married one.
in the past woman and the man has their own diff roles.
for eg:a man shld go out and work
while the woman has to do all the housework.
BUT now everyting is diff..
-the woman having a career.
-the man stays at hm helping the housework and tking care of his kids.
WEL, does it mean the NOW era way of doing tings are wrong?
forme i dun tink it is.cuz its either the man or the woman.in the sense as long sumone is willing to tk each other roles and help out.
everyone always tell me,once my hubby started working life aft his ns i shld stop working and let him support me.i DISAGREE.bcuz i love working i feel a sense of achievement.that doesnt mean my hubby started working means i dun help in the burden.unless we are able to haf a comfortable life w one person working then to me its alrite.
the another point i wana blog abt is abt SEX between married couples.
in this aspect im reali kinda confused and so call ignorant and dun reali agree certain points.ok wat are they====> sex does bond the couple tgt.w/o it it will drift them apart is that true.
i dun AGREE lei cuz to me if each other loves, this is defintiely nt gg to affect.well this is my own perspective.i haf heard stories abt the wife compromising everyting having gd sex life but their hubby stil find woman for extramarital affairs SO can anyone tell me why isit so confusing.
ok third point WHICH is the most impt.----->trust plus understanding
wat does this UNDERSTANDING over here means.it means not using the u change then i change mentality on yr partner and u shld do not me kind of mentality.this is wat meant of understanding in a married couple as in when either party is busy u shld b understanding and help out too.and trusting meaning always giving each other sum space for each privacy.
suddenly has this topic popping out since ytd.and i find it quite interesting to share abit w all of u.well i jus hope this little points can help a little.
love is definitely abt understanding, trust and communication! so start now to improve yr rs!
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