Tolerance

im feeling kinda strain frm tolerating too much.well, everyone says to me that when u tolerate, it will makes u a stronger person instead of redirecting yr anger on others and so on.

well, why do i post abt tolerance today?hmm cuz i haf been complaining to my sisters abt how much i haf tolerating till i feel i cant breathe anymore.NO SPACE to breathe.

ok i shall jus share abit of why i am feeling this way.

i guess most couples who were jus married will usually stay w their in laws till they get their own flats.for me, im staying in a rental flat w my hubby and baby and occasionally my MIL will come over to stay and as for my FIL, he comes every weekends or public holiday.

Abt my FIL, well i already tahan him sicne the day i worked for him b4 till now.its like numb le occasionally he will say nonsense to provoke me.but well, like wat my hubby say he is jus joking w me so alrite i jus treat it as it is.

as for my MIL, currently she is staying at my place due to her injured limbs and w the attached cast on them,*haf mentioned in my previous posts*

well, she is a gd MIL to me she dotes on me but one ting ic ant tahan is that she must always initiates tings.
for instance, wahsing the clothes and mopping the floor.she usually get up earlier than me and cuz of the casts she is not able to do all this vigourous chores so definitely i will b the one doing cuz dear will help to tk care of little nicole.and so on.but u noe wat is the main ting that i cant tolerate.*i shall not beat ard the bush le*
my eyes haven even been open fully i alreayd nope i gt to hang the clothes and mop the floor and tings becoming so rush.i hate to rush especially now that im preggy. i will feel dman bloody tired and frustrated,the whole day today im feeling so moody.sumtimes she treat it like as if i dunno hw to do tings and expect me to do it under her command.and abt cutting my daughter's nails.cuz my little one is very sensitive, got once we cut too deep then frm then on she dare not to let us cut when she is awake so my hubby and me make it a point to cut it when eva she is having her nap.and as usual, my MIL initiates again when i told her repeatedly that my little one will definitely wun let her cut.and true enuf she refused to listen.and in the end my little one's nails is not cut.

ok well, i may sound abit wicked here and also very rude but then sumtimes i feel that they dun belive in our abilities at all and kip teaching us to do thsi do that when we noe how to handle,im NICOLE's mother how can i dunno more well than others.i mean sumtimes she reali likes to use her authority to do tings.she is supposed to recuperate rather than bother all this tings.
but anyway i also noe she do all those its cuz she wana lessen my burden.this i understand.but i reali hope she will jus trsut in my abilty rather than distrust it when in the end the person feeling like so call 'PAISEI" is her.

i jus wan harmony and happiness in the family.but anyway, its reali true la,TOLERANCE reali will help solve alot probs.and also create harmony.we can grumble and talk tings out but dun let the anger get over you.cuz it will onli create more friction between yr family and you.so remember TOLERATE!!!!!!!!!