Reality

Reality? wat does this word means to u? do u tink that reality is naturally cruel or sweet?

in this post of mine i actually jus wana share abt the aspect of LOVE related to the term reality.

well, to most couples LOVE is jus like fairytale but in the fact LOVE or Relationship needs committment.not LOVE alone can maintain a relationship well.in my case, i feel that even if both of u loves each other very much but if either party jus cant compromise in anyting or can commit then the relationship is jus hard to maintain.

I can feel the LOVE that my hubby haf for me but i cant feel that he is reali committed in it as in he dun seemed to listen to everyting i say, he seems to be in his own world.i feel kinda disappointed in it.as a mature person i shld understand that it doesnt mean he dun love me but then sumtimes i jus feel very frustrated.BUT like as i haf mention in my post title.It is REALITY.whether u can accept it anot its up to individual.

today he was at hm and cuz i need to jurong point to handle sum stuffs so he got to stay at hm to tk care of my two kids.It was heading to evening time and dinner time too.so i gave him an sms asking him wat he wud like to eat, i can dabao for him.
but in the end i waited for at least 15 mins for his reply cuz he was slping w the kids at hm and while i was on the bus on the way hm, he sms me back passing this remark.syaing that dinner is a must of cuz must eat, why i stil ask.dunno wat the hell has provoked him.and worse still in my sms i was asking him WAT HE WUD WAN TO EAT and not whether HE WANT EAT ANOT.. can u see it? miscommunication.im so angry w him.jus so pissed.now at this moment, im tinking shld i jus drop him an sms and tell him how i feel.cuz i hate ppl who misinterpret wat i said.

he did realise he say sumting wrong but he jus pretend nth happen. well its jus a small ting but then i feel that small ting also shld be discussed.

now im pondering shld i or not talk to him abt this issue.any advice?

sum frens tot that i haf a fairytale marriage but this is not reality of life.LIFE is nv perfect.it has its up and down.i jus hope my hubby will be more receptive and sensitive.