~+*life+~*

wat i feel abt life? hmmm i feel that life can b difficult at times.but wat shld we do?i feel that we shld take one step at a time.we shldnt let difficulty overcome us.instead we shld overcum it.

i jus read my fren's [feng yun] blog and find out how miserable she feel.i understand how she feels.if i haf a chance to meet her or wateva i will tok to her to let her noe hw i got thru everyting.i briefly tell wat are her probs.her probs are due to relationships which is sumting that ppl yearn to have n have a gd everlasting one.she stil cant forget the past she kip missing the special sumone who haf been so heartless to her. love is sumting nt to b questioned.noone will understand hw another feels unless we r the person.its nt ez to forget sumone u loves so much.and as frens, i feel that we shld give moral support and concern n not toking abt asking the wounded person to forget.cuz its impossible to forget but onli forgiving the hurts and also overcome it.

this is wat i learn during this past years.. i haf gone thru the same ting b4.i understand that.but i wan to thank that person who hurt me cuz without him i wun get to noe my hubby who loves me.n tolerates everyting abt me.

in order to relieve yrself of the hurts and pain u mus tell yrself to forgive the person.onli when u kip forgiving the hurts will b slowly gone.treat him as a fren.if he doesnt wan then forget it. MOVE ON!! move on is the word.dun let such person affect yr well being & yr life.its not worth it. count yr blessings.. there are worse ppl than us.

if i can get over all this past hurts all of u out there can do it.remember that.we shld treasure ourselves.

i used to hurt myself cuz of my ex bf.wallow in depression in self pity.cant eat cant slp and jus in my own world.but aft long time of this i finally WAKE UP! n i tell myself y mus i suffer for sumone who doesnt care.

n at the same time i met my hubby.though at first our love was nt strong but cuz i learn to accept myself n him and finally our love was such.. so strong.
we too have our misunderstandings.. jus like two days ago we fight and even at the verge of saying wan to break up but then i belive its cuz of our love we manage to save it..

frankly i thank him for being patient to me.

to feng yun:

dun despair cuz u have a hope of a beta life.dun lose hope in yrself love yrself ok?jus remember to love yrself more.i wan to see the old feng yun who has been so cheerful n talkative.. jia you.. :)